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Dukanmu mun taɓa jin babu ɗan adam cikakke kuma ajizanci kyakkyawa ne. Shin mun yi imani da shi? Ee, muna yi. Kowane ɗan adam yana yin kuskure. Don haka, babu wanda yake kamili.
Amma game da zama mata, maza suna neman kamala. Jira! Cikakke a cikin ajizancin da suke da shi. Maza suna da wasu buƙatu daga matansu kuma akasin haka.
kabewa 'ya'yan itace ne
Bari muyi magana akan menene abubuwan da mace zata yi a cikin aure don zama cikakke ga mijinta.
Ba kimiyyar roka bane kana bukatar fahimta. Wadannan tabbatattun bayanai ne na asali wadanda kowane namiji yake bukata daga matarsa. Idan kanaso mijinki yayi farin ciki, to ya zama dole ka bi wadannan sauki na Aure.
Aure yana da wahala kuma duk mun san shi. Amma yin aiki tare da abokin zaman ku ya dogara da yadda ku da abokin ka ke da aminci a tsakanin ku.
Mata suna da rikitarwa kuma maza kasancewar sunada sauki, abu ne mai sauki ga aure yayi aiki. Amma ba ze zama mai sauƙi ba kamar yadda yake sauti.
Dalilan da ke haifar da irin wadannan sune kananan ginshikan da maza da mata suke mantawa dasu kuma suke bi a cikin aure.
Wannan labarin yana ga duk matan da suke shirye don inganta kansu fiye da abin da suke yi a farkon aure. Don a fahimtar dasu inda yake kuskure.
Bari mu ga duk abubuwan yau da kullun su zama cikakkiyar mata.
1. Aminci
Haka ne, aminci shine mahimmin mahimmanci na kowane aure. A cikin aure, komai game da tallafawa da tsayuwa da juna, kowane lokaci kuma sannan. Don kowane aure yayi aiki, komai matakin da yake ciki, dole ne mutum ya kasance mai aminci ga abokiyar zamanta, kamar yadda yakamata suyi muku biyayya.
Kana bukatar ka amince da abokin tarayya game da ba yaudarar ku. Don zama cikakkiyar mace, dole ne kuma ku kasance mai aminci ga abokin tarayya kowane lokaci. Duk da cewa kai da maigidan ku kuna cikin wani mawuyacin hali, yakamata ku kasance masu biyayya ga mijinku. Idan har kuna son mijinta kuma yana son ku, to tabbas za ku yi aiki da shi ko da a cikin mawuyacin lokacin aurenku.
Kasance komai, kasancewa mai aminci ga aure shine mabuɗin zama cikakkiyar mace.
2. Gaskiya
Gaskiya shine kuma koyaushe zai zama mafi kyawun siyasa a rayuwa da cikin aure ma.
Don zama cikakkiyar mace, akwai buƙatar ka kasance mai gaskiya komai ƙanƙantar da lamarin kuma koda hakan ya kasance akanka. Gaskiya ita ce hanyar samun nasarar aure.
Yana daga cikin mahimman abubuwan asasi waɗanda ake buƙata a cikin kowane aure. Ba wai kawai miji ba, mace ma ya kamata ta kasance mai gaskiya. Aure yakan rabu idan ɗayan abokan cin amana yake.
Fahimtar dalilan da suka sa ake yin aure, ya kasance koyaushe ana gano cewa aure na iya lalacewa idan ɗayan abokan aikin ba su da gaskiya.
Kasancewar cikakkiyar mace na bukatar gaskiya da kwazo zuwa gaskiya. Idan kana da shi, kai cikakke ne, milady!
3. Kulawa
Mace ta haihuwar ta fi namiji kulawa. Amma matar aure ba wai kawai ta kula da kanta ba ne, har ma da mijinta da surukan nata. Kowane miji yana son ya sami mace mai kulawa. Suna son gaskiyar auren mace mai kulawa. Suna jin zasu iya haɗuwa da su.
Maza suna neman aboki, abokin tarayya, masoyi da uwa a cikin hanyar mata. Idan kana bashi hakane, to kana kulawa sosai da zai kira ka cikakkiyar mace.
4. Tausayi
Yana da wata bukata ta asali a cikin aure. Tausayi yakan sa ka zama mai zuciyar kirki kuma kowane namiji yana neman matar kirki. Kasancewa mai tausayawa duk wani mummunan motsin rai da mijinki yake ji wani muhimmin abu ne na zama cikakkiyar mace. Kuna buƙatar nuna cewa kun damu sosai game da shi kuma alherin ku shine ke sanya shi jin daɗi. Idan kuna kyautatawa ga halayensa kuma kuna fahimtar sa, kun riga kun zama cikakke a idanunku.
5. Kawance
Shaƙatawa shine babban abin da kowane namiji da mace ke buƙatar kasancewa a cikin aure. Kasancewa kusa da miji shine mabudin cikakkiyar mace. Kusantar juna na iya zama magana ko ta jiki. Hakanan yana iya zama cikin alamu. Muddin akwai kusanci a cikin dangantakar, yana da wuya aure ya rabu. Rashin kusanci yana haifar da bambance-bambance a cikin aure kuma don haka yana haifar da lalacewar aure.
Cikakkiyar mace ita ce wacce ke da duk waɗannan ginshiƙai a rayuwarta da aurenta, kuma tsakanin mijinta. Idan kun ji kun rasa ɗayan waɗannan, fara sanya shi domin zama cikakkiyar matar miji.
Ka tuna, ba kimiyyar roka bane don zama cikakke a cikin ajizancin da kai da abokin tarayyar ku kuka mallaka. Kawai kasance mai gaskiya ga kowane asalin da aka ambata kuma zaku sami ci gaba a cikin aurenku.