Atauna a Wurin Farko: Gaskiya Ko Karya?

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Menene ma'anar soyayya? Shin ba daidai ba ne a ce kowane ɗayanmu yana da ma'anar daban da shi? Loveauna tana ɗauke da ma'anoni daban-daban ga kowa kuma ya dogara da abin da muka samu. Abu daya tabbatacce ne - yana kai mu ga girgije tara. Sama ta zama mai haske, ciyawa ta yi kore, isk windski suna ta kuwwa da raɗa a cikin kunnuwa, ruwan sama ya bugu da bayanin kiɗa da shawa da farin ciki daga kowane bangare. Kuma duk wannan yana faruwa a cikin wannan ɓangaren na biyu lokacin da kuka fahimci cewa kuna soyayya, a wannan farkon lokacin da motsin rai ya same ku.

Yaya Ofaunar Soyayya Ta Iya Turnarfafa Dangantaka Mai Tsami

Amma duk waɗannan suna faruwa a farkon ganin da kuka yi wa wani? Shin soyayya a farko gani gaske ne ko karya ne? Yana da wuya a ce soyayya na faruwa ne a kallon farko da ka yi wa wani. A karo na farko da muka ga wani kuma muka ci gaba da jin shi yana kusa da jan hankali. An fara jan mu zuwa ga kallon mutum. Isauna wani abu ne wanda ya wuce kallon ido. Kawai ta hanyar duban wani da cewa muna soyayya da wannan mutumin zai zama wata dabara mai nisa.

Yana da yawa don sanin mutum kuma ku sani ko a shirye muke muyi sauran rayuwarmu tare da wannan mutum ɗaya ko a'a. Yanke shawarar yin hakan a farkon gani zai ɗauki shakku da yawa don nan gaba. Akwai abubuwa da yawa da ƙaramin aiki waɗanda suka danganci wannan ƙaunar ta farko.

Kafin mu duba fa'idodin soyayya a farkon gani bari muyi la'akari da wasu daga cikin dalilan da ke nuna adawa da ita wacce tambaya ko soyayya a gani gaskiya ce ko karya ne

mafi kyawun fakitin gashi don haɓaka gashi

Atuarfafawa: A karo na farko da muka kalli wani mutum kawai bayyanar ne yake damun mu. An jawo mu zuwa ga yanayin mutum kuma ba mu san komai game da halin mutum ba. Faduwa don kamanni yafi kama da jan hankali da soyayya. Loveauna ba ta faruwa haka cikin sauƙi. Yana ɗaukar abubuwa da yawa don jin daɗin ƙauna ya ci gaba.

Ba buƙatar zama tare ba: Kuna iya duban wani kuma ku sami sha'awar. Kuna so ku kasance cikin dangantaka da wannan mutumin amma kuna da tabbacin akwai irin wannan ji a ɗaya ƙarshen kuma? Jin kanka zai iya ɗaukar ma'ana kawai idan kun san cewa juna ne.

Ba ku san komai game da mutumin ba: Me ka sani game da wannan mutumin da kake ‘ƙauna’ da shi? Kusan ba komai. A irin wannan yanayi ta yaya za ku ce kuna son wannan mutumin? Kuna buƙatar sanin mutumin - kyawawan halaye da ƙyama - don ƙauna.

Short rayuwa dangantaka: Ka hadu da wani ka yi aure! Har yaushe wannan dangantakar zata kasance? Bayan kun yi aure sai ku fara gano juna. Wataƙila akwai abubuwan da kuke so game da junanku yayin da akwai abubuwan da ba kwa so. Ya kamata ku san juna kafin ku shiga cikin haɗin gwiwa.

Dangane da duk waɗannan maganganu marasa kyau don ƙauna a farkon gani gardama ɗaya ce takan faru da ni'imar ta. Kuna ganin junan ku, kun sami sha'awa, haɓaka soyayya kuma kun yanke shawarar zama abokan rayuwa. Kuma duk wannan yana faruwa a farkon fewan mintina na haɗuwa da juna.

hanya mafi kyau don kawar da da'ira mai duhu

Murya a cikin ku tana sa ku gaskanta cewa kun sami abokin rayuwar ku. Jin juna ne wanda baya ɗaukar lokaci don haɓaka. Kai tsaye ka sani cewa ka sami mutum na musamman wanda zaka shirya tafiya dashi har ƙarshen duniyar nan. Wannan na iya faruwa a kowane mataki na rayuwa kuma wataƙila a wasu lokuta da ba ku da shiri sosai da shi.

Babu laifi a ce gani na farko yafi jan hankali da soyayya. Amma idan wannan farkon jan hankalin ya zama soyayya babu kuskure a ce soyayya ce a gani na farko. Don haka me za ku ce - shin soyayya da farko gani ta gaskiya ce ko ta jabu?

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