Ee, na sani. Wataƙila kuna tunani: Wanene shine wannan mutumin da ya jira fiye da shekaru ashirin don ganin daya daga cikin mafi girma ROM coms na kowane lokaci?
Don gaskiya, ina ɗan shekara biyar kawai lokacin Daurin Auren Abokina an sake shi, kuma ba da jimawa ba ne, yayin da nake bincika taken soyayya akan Amazon Prime, na ci karo da wannan taken na 90s. Idan akai la'akari da duk tabbataccen sake dubawa daga masu sukar, na yi la'akari da cewa dole ne ya dace da kallo, don haka na ba shi harbi.
Ga wadanda har yanzu ba su yi tsalle a kan wannan bandwagon ba, Daurin Auren Abokina ya bi Julianne Potter ( Julia Roberts ), matashiyar mai sukar abinci wanda ta gano cewa a zahiri tana soyayya da babban abokinta, Michael O'Neal (Dermot Mulroney). Matsalar kawai? Michael yana da shirin yin aure da wani a cikin kwanaki biyar kawai, wanda ke nufin Julianne za ta iya rasa damarta ta kasancewa tare da shi har abada. Shin za ta iya dakatar da wannan auren a cikin yanayinsa kuma ta sami abin da ta fi so?
Saurin gaba awa daya da mintuna 45, kuma maza, na ji takaici sosai ganin kallon wannan fim. Na yi godiya da abin dariya, amma TBH, na yi amfani da lokaci mai yawa don kallon allon saboda kawai na kasa shawo kan halin guba na Jules (shin da gaske ne ta tilasta wa babban abokinta ya yi wasa da saurayinta?). Koyaya, narcissism na Jules ba shine kawai abin da ya dame ni ba. Mutumin mafarkinta, Michael, yana da wasu batutuwa masu mahimmanci, kuma ina jin kamar ana manta da wannan bangare saboda ayyukan Jules. Don haka matsawa, Jules (ya isa an faɗi game da halin ku). Anan akwai dalilai guda biyar halayen Michael yana da matsala.
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Ronald Siemoneit / Hotunan Getty1. Yana shirye ya bar Kimmy ya sadaukar da makomarta don ci gaba da aikinsa
Yana da ban sha'awa cewa Kimmy (Cameron Diaz) yana so ya goyi bayan ayyukan aikin abokin tarayya, amma abin da ke damun shi shine cewa Michael ba ya nuna irin wannan matakin goyon baya a gare ta. A cikin shekaru 20 kacal (bari wannan ya nutse a…), Kimmy duk tana farin cikin barin makaranta kuma ta bi mijinta a ƙasashen waje yayin da yake aiki a matsayin marubucin wasanni. Amma lokacin da ta yi magana game da samun tunani na biyu, Michael ya buge ta ya yi amfani da ita cikin tunanin haka ina ta mugun guy. Um Menene?
2. Halin da ya yi na ganin BFF rabin tsirara bai dace ba
Idan za ku tuna, akwai wani yanayi a cikin fim ɗin inda Michael ya shiga kan Julianne bisa kuskure yayin da ta canza a ɗakin otal ɗinta, amma lokacin da ya gan ta a cikin rigar ƙaƙƙarfanta, ba ya ko tanƙwara. Ba tare da neman gafara ba, Michael yana tsaye a can kuma ya ci gaba da jin dadin kallon, yana ba'a cewa ya riga ya gan ta tsirara. Sannan kafin ya ja baya yace tayi kyau sosai bata saka kayanta ba.
Yanzu, gyara ni idan nayi kuskure, amma idan angon da zai kasance a kwance ya shiga cikin BFF ɗinsa mai rabin tsirara kuma hankalinsa na farko shine yin kwarkwasa, to alama ce ta cewa wannan mutumin bai shirya yin hakan ba. aure. Ina nufin, idan shi da Kimmy sun yarda su sami bude dangantaka , to wannan wani labari ne na daban. Amma a wannan yanayin, yana jagorantar wata mace sosai yayin da yake shirye-shiryen ɗaurin aure tare da wanda ke son sadaukar da aikinta da ilimi a gare shi. Yi magana game da karkatattun...
3. Michael ya fi gaskiya da Jules fiye da angonsa
Kamar yadda ba zan iya jure halin son kai na Jules da kalaman lalata da Michael ba, zan yarda, wannan yanayin ya ba ni. duka jin. Lalacewar da aka raba. Yadda Jules da Michael suka kalli juna. Halin Jules lokacin da Michael ya kira ta matar a rayuwarsa. Ya kasance kamar kallon soyayyar Hallmark mai ɗaci. Amma mutane, ba zan iya girgiza gaskiyar cewa duk wannan yana faruwa ba dama kafin auren Michael.
A cikin wannan yanayin, ya furta cewa yana tunani da yawa game da Jules kuma ya ambaci cewa wannan zai iya zama lokacin su na ƙarshe su kaɗai. A bayyane yake, wannan ita ce hanyar da ya ba Jules damar ya bayyana yadda ta ji, kuma na kasance haka ta gamsu cewa za ta yi magana (musamman idan aka yi la'akari da tsawon da ta yi don lalata aurensa). Amma abin mamaki, ba ta da ƙarfin hali ta faɗi yadda ta ji da gaske.
Duk da haka, ban mamaki ilmin sunadarai a gefe, wannan ba shine wuri mafi kyau ga kowa da kowa zai kasance a ciki ba lokacin da suke shirin auren wanda ya kira ƙaunar rayuwarsu. Michael ya fito fili ya yi kwarkwasa da Jules, sannan ya zubo mata zuciyarsa game da shakkun da yake da shi game da bikin aurensa. Na san cewa Jules shine babban abokinsa kuma duka, amma Jules ya kasance ba wanda ya bukaci jin wannan. Idan da gaske Michael yana ƙauna kuma yana mutunta amaryarsa, to da zai sami ladabi ya faɗa gaskiya da Kimmy game da yadda yake ji.
4. Ya tsotsi Kimberly'zoben bikin aure kashe Julianne's yatsa
Tambayar Tambaya: Idan za ku auri wani kuma kuka ga zoben alkawari yana makale a yatsan abokinku, shin za ku a) Google amintaccen hacks don cire matsi zoben, b) shafa shi da man shanu da fatan mafi kyau ko c ) suna tsotse shi daga yatsansu? Da alama Michael ya zaɓi zaɓi na uku kuma, mutane, tashin hankalin jima'i a wannan wurin yana da kauri don yanka da wuka. Yana da kyau a lura cewa bai ma damu da tambayar Jules ba me yasa Ta gwada wannan zobe a farkon wuri, kuma ko da yake na fahimci cewa yana jin damuwa game da Kimmy, har yanzu yanayinsa bai dace ba.
5. Rawar farko da sabuwar amaryarsa ita ce waƙa ta musamman da ya raba tare da Julianne
Abin takaici ne cewa duka Michael da Kimmy sun yarda su bar Jules, babban mai sabo, ya halarci bikin su. Amma lokacin da Jules ya ba da aron musu waƙa ta musamman da ta yi wa Michael, na yi mamaki. Ina nufin, gaske ? Shin Michael bai damu ba ko kaɗan game da wannan, ganin cewa Jules ta furta ƙaunarta a gare shi sa'o'i kaɗan kafin bikin aure? Shin bai yi la'akari da yadda tunaninsa da Jules zai iya hana shi ƙirƙirar sabon abu mai ma'ana da matarsa ba? Ko da ana nufin wannan a matsayin alama mai kyau, kawai ba ze zama mafi kyawun ra'ayin ango ya yi amfani da waƙa ta musamman da ke wakiltar dangantakarsu da wani ba.
Kuna son ƙarin zafafan fim ɗin aika zuwa akwatin saƙo na ku? Danna nan .
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