Yadda ake Magana da S.O. Game da Zumunci

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Yarda da shi: Kai da abokin aikinku kuna musanyar gulma ga abokin aikinku maimakon zancen matashin kai, ba ku ba da ɗaya daga cikin teddies ɗin ku ba. shekaru kuma kun daina amfani da kalmar kalmar ku shekaru da yawa da suka wuce. (Domin rikodin, rumman ne.) Mun same shi, kuma ba mu da laifi. Wani lokaci soyayyar takan yi, a zahiri, fizzle. Wannan shine dalilin da ya sa muka matsa wa masanin jima'i Cassandra Corrado, mai koyar da jima'i mai zaman kansa wanda aka horar da shi a Cibiyar Jin Dadin Jima'i da Lafiya kuma a yanzu ƙwararren Ƙwararru ne a dandalin jima'i na tushen San Francisco. O. Makaranta , don hanyoyin da za ku yi magana da abokin tarayya game da karfafa rayuwar soyayya. Anan akwai shawarwarinta guda uku don buɗewa S.O. game da haɓaka wasan jima'i.

1. Kawo Tattaunawar Wajen Daki

Tukwici na lamba ɗaya na Corrado: Kada ku kawo rashin gamsuwa a cikin ɗakin kwana. Magana game da son sababbin abubuwa na jima'i na iya zama tattaunawa mai ban sha'awa, amma kuma yana iya zama tattaunawa mai rauni, Corrado ya raba. Samun sa yayin da aka riga an cire rigar baya ba mutane lokaci ko sarari don gane yadda suke ji game da abubuwa. Ee, kamar yadda mai jaraba zai iya zama don kawo convo na jima'i a cikin wurin da za ku iya yin jima'i, babban abu ne a'a. Madadin haka, Corrado yana ba da shawarar samun yanki mai tsaka tsaki inda bangarorin biyu ke jin daɗi (ba tare da ambaton ba, suna da cikakken sutura). Ko wannan yana tafiya yawo a cikin unguwar tare ko yin tafiya a cikin wani yanki mai natsuwa na kantin kofi da kuka fi so, kawai ku tabbata cewa ba ku ƙarƙashin murfin lokacin da kuka bayyana takaicinku game da yanayin halin yanzu.

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2. Rage abin da kuke so

Kuma akan wannan bayanin, ku kasance cikin shiri don tattaunawa akan menene burin ku da kuma ainihin abin da kuke so daga tattaunawar da rayuwar soyayyar ku. Shin akwai sabbin gogewa ko mukamai da kuke sha'awar? Ko sabbin na'urori da kuke son kawowa cikin ɗakin kwana-kamar gwadawa plusOne mini massager kuma mai mai tare? Corrado yana ba da shawarar ku da abokin tarayya daban ku ɗauki tambayoyin jima'i akan layi don yin la'akari da abin da kuke son cim ma tare da taron. Suna ba ku damar yin tunani game da abubuwa da yawa daban-daban da kuke sha'awar, sannan kawai za ku gano game da abubuwan da ku da abokin aikin ku suka daidaita daidai da su, Corrado ya rubuta. Ta haka, kai da S.O. suna farawa daga wurin da aka sani, maimakon shiga cikin convo ba tare da sanin abin da mutum yake so ba. (FYI: Ta nuna, duk da haka, yawancin tambayoyin suna yin zato game da al'aurar abokan tarayya don haka ba su haɗa kai sosai ba.)

3. Gwada Tambayoyi Biyu Kai tsaye da kuma a kaikaice

A ƙarshe, Corrado ya bayyana cewa akwai hanyoyi guda biyu don kawo batun: kai tsaye (kamar hey, za ku yi sha'awar gwaji tare da bauta a lokacin jima'i? Ina so in gwada yin amfani da wasu ƙuntatawa na wuyan hannu.') a kai tsaye (aika da labarin). game da matsayi mai ban sha'awa da za ku yi sha'awar gwadawa sannan ku tambayi abin da abokin ku ke tunani game da shi). Hakanan zaka iya gwada nuna alama akan abubuwan yaji yayin yanayin fim ɗin mai tururi. Duk da yake babu wata hanya da ba daidai ba, Corrado yana jin cewa yin tambaya a kaikaice na iya zama hanya mai kyau don farawa: Yana ba ku damar buɗe tattaunawar kuma ku gano yadda abokin tarayya zai ji kafin ku buɗe kanku gaba ɗaya gare su, in ji ta. Kuma idan hakan bai yi aiki ba, zaɓin rashin aminci na ku yana gabatowa batun gaba ɗaya. Ina jin kamar ya kamata mu kasance masu zafi mai zafi, gashin gashi, oh-na-allah-mai kyau jima'i, kuma ba mu. Ina tsammanin ya kamata mu canza wannan, don haka bari muyi magana game da shi, wuri ne mai kyau don farawa.

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