Matar da tunanin saurayin na ‘zalunci’ game da aure ya baci: ‘Bugu a fuska’

Mafi Kyawun Sunaye Ga Yara

Mace ba ta son ta saurayi yana nuni da ita a matsayin matarsa.



shawarwari don cire baƙar fata akan hanci

Ta ci gaba da Reddit's Ni ne A**** forum don raba dalilinta. Matar da saurayinta sun shafe sama da shekara biyar suna tare kuma suna da dan shekara 1 tare. Amma da lokaci ya yi da biyu su yi aure , saurayin ya kira kashe bikin kwana biyu kafin bikin.



Aure/shawarwari na da matukar muhimmanci a gare ni, matar ta rubuta . Ya ce zai aure ni saboda yana shirin kasancewa tare da ni har abada kuma saboda yana ganin zai yi wa ɗanmu kyau. A lokacin da nake ciki, ya ambata sau da yawa cewa yana so ya yi aure kafin a haifi ɗanmu. Na jira amma ban sami shawara ko wani abu ba. Watan da ya gabata shine cikar mu na shekaru biyar kuma na yi tunanin zai yi kyau mu yi aure a ranar. Na yi ajiyar zuciya har yanzu bai taba ba da shawara ba, musamman saboda ya nemi budurwarsa ta karshe da ke gabana da zobe da komai.

Ta hakura da wata shawara da bikin soyayya. Sannan ya amince da wani dan karamin biki na sanya hannu akan takardar aure muddin ta tsara komai ba tare da taimakonsa ba.

Ana saura kwana biyu daurin auren, ranar da na shirya in je in sami lasisin, sai ya ce ya ji, ‘a tilasta masa ya yi aure’ kuma bai ji dadin yin hakan ba a yanzu. mai amfani ya bayyana . Don haka sai na soke komai kuma in bayyana wa kowa a wurin aiki lokacin da suka tambayi yadda bikin ya kasance. Abin tausayi da wulakanci ne. Na shiga cikin wani babban abin damuwa kuma ban ma tunanin za mu daɗe tare ba. […] Kwanan nan ya gabatar da ni ga wani kamar yadda, ‘Wannan matata ce, Alicia.’ Ya ji kamar an mari a fuska.



Masu amfani da Reddit sun ji saurayin yana wulakanta ta.

amfanin kananan albasa ga gashi

Wannan zalunci ne kawai a gare shi. wani mai amfani ya rubuta .

man gashi don sake girma gashi

Yarinya, bai da niyyar aurenki kuma ba zai taba yi ba. wani yace .



Ba shi da sha'awar yin aure, kuma yana bukatar ya daina kiran ki da matarsa, wani ya rubuta .

Idan kun ji daɗin wannan labarin, duba sirrin wannan ma'aurata na shekaru 50 na aure mai dadi .

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