#Tbt har na fara daidaita kaina da abinda zai zama karya na Abokai ainihi: Wanda na fi kwatanta kaina daJennifer AnistonRachel Green.
NBCKafin in ci gaba, ina so in san yadda ake jin daɗin kashewa fiye da daƙiƙa guda wajen ƙoƙarin ganin kanku a cikin halin almara. Gaskiya ne cewa relatability ba shine mabuɗin don TV mai kyau ba, kamar yadda abokin aikina ya nuna da tunani sosai, amma yawancin lokacin da kuke saka hannun jari a cikin nunin, gwargwadon yadda kuke sha'awar haruffan da suka fi jin daɗin ku - don haka ina rungume shi. . (Don rikodin, Ni kuma duka Charlotte, Leslie, Lady Mary, Pam da Rory ne.)
Amma baya zuwa lokacin da na yanke shawarar cewa ni Rachel Green ne. Ya kasance 2004 kuma ni kaina na kasance mai koren kore, na fara karatun digiri na biyu don nazarin aikin jarida a Boston a cikin shirin da ban san rai ba. Aboki na farko da na yi? To, ta kasance kamar Abokai -soyayya kamar kaina. Dangantakar mu akan jerin, wanda kawai yayi bikin cika shekaru 25 a wannan faɗuwar, ya gudana cikin gamut: Mun shafe sa'o'i muna sake kallon duk abubuwan da muka fi so tare (lokaci na 5 shine nasara, mun yarda duka) kuma muna aiki da layin da muka fi so cikin tattaunawar yau da kullun ( zan iya kasance sanye da wani kaya? duk lokacin da muka yi ƙarfin gwiwa da sanyin sanyi na Boston). Heck, har ma mun ƙaura zuwa gidajen da ke kan titi daga juna (shi ne Abokai IRL, mun yi dariya yayin da na sanya hannu na haya).
Amma lokacin ma'anar gaskiya ya zo lokacin da sabon abokina ya fara kirana da sabon sunan barkwanci: Ray Ray Green. Abin sani kawai, sunana Rachel, bayan haka. Kamar mahaukaci kamar yadda yake ji a gare ni yanzu, yayin da muke ɗaukar DVD bayan DVD kai tsaye daga cikin akwatin tunawa da ke saita pre-Netflix, Rahila ita ce halin da na gamsu da na fi son ni. I tabbas ba Monica ba - takardar. Ni da Rachel muna da alaƙa da yawa, a cewara. Wayyyyy fiye da ni kuma Monica .
yaya? Da farko, muna da launin gashi iri ɗaya (!). Maganar gaskiya, idan ka tambayi mai salo na, kallon da ya yi min aski bayan aski shima yayi kama da Rahila, sa hannun halinta. (Mun kasance iri ɗaya, gani?)
Cikakkun bayanai na zahiri baya ga, Rach kuma ya kasance mai wayo da salo kuma yana son farawa daga ƙasan ƙasa don motsawa daga barista kofi zuwa fashionista. (Ni ma abin ban dariya ne! Na gaya wa kaina. Har ila yau, na kasance a farkon farkon aikin mujallar da aka ƙaddara-zuwa-zama, a kai a kai ina aika sako ga abokina wanda ya yi mani lakabi da Ray Ray don yin kuka da karin kwanakin biyan kuɗi: Kamar dai. akwai dutsen kasa, 50 ƙafa na banza, sa'an nan ni, daya daga Rahila ta mafi classic Lines.) A ƙarshe, ta ciyar da kwanakinta da cika fuska sha'awar bayan dorky masanin burbushin halittu-LYMI, Ross-a cikin wani on-sake, kashe-sake dangantaka. (A lokacin, na murkushewa ya kasance wani cappella nerd wanda ba a iya samu a rai ba. OK don haka dangantakarmu ba ta kasance mai ban mamaki ba kamar ta Ross da Rahila...amma na ambata gashinmu ya kasance, kamar, iri ɗaya ne?
Ci gaba zuwa 2019-shekarar cika shekaru 25-da kuma ga abokina na makarantar grad, wanda ya zama ɗan wasa na rayuwa, har yanzu ina bin Ray Ray Green. Matsalar kawai? Kamar yadda ya fito (eh, kun ga wannan zuwan), Ni cikakkiyar Monica ce.
Abin banza.
Kamar yadda aka ce, hangen nesa yana da sauƙi, amma gaskiyar ita ce ni da Monica ruhohin dangi ne—ko da yaushe mun kasance. Abu ɗaya, ita 'yar aji ɗaya ce mai tsafta. (Duk lokacin da na toshe vacuum na Dyson ko na yi wa matata lacca game da barin rigar tawul a ƙasa, ina tunanin ta — da daɗi, ya kamata in ƙara.) Ita ma mai faranta wa mutane rai (laifi!) Ban taɓa son Monica fiye da wasan da suke buga ƙwallon ƙafa akan Thanksgiving ba). Kamar Rachel, ita ma ta kamu da soyayyar dork - Chandler Bing - amma daya ba wasan kwaikwayo-mai yiwuwa. (Sun yi cudanya a Landan, sun bayyana soyayyar juna, sun yi aure kuma suka sami tagwaye. Ni da mijina mun hadu a kan layi, mun yi kwanan wata shida, muka yi aure kuma muka haifi yaro. On- again/off- again? Babu kowa. tare da mu.)
Me yasa na kasance da juriya ga rungumar Monica ta ciki tsawon waɗannan shekarun? Monica tana da ban dariya. (Kalmomi biyu: yankunan Erogenous.) Kuma mai salo a hanyarta. (Wataƙila ba ta kasance ƴar fashionista ba, amma tana da nata irin nata na cikin gari mai sanyi.) Amma, ba kamar Rahila ba, wadda ta yi fumbled yayin da ta sami hanyar zuwa Ralph Lauren, Monica tana shirin kullewa tun daga farko. Kullum ta san abin da take so. A zahiri, burinta da jin daɗinta yayin da ta zagaya da'irar gidan abinci, tana aiki, sannan tana gudanar da nata kicin, shine abin da ya fi dacewa da ni, kusan 2019.
Idan aka waiwaya baya, yanayin aikina ba kamar na Rahila bane, kamar na Monica ne—1,000 bisa dari. Tun daga lokacin (da kuma tun kafin kwanakin karatun grad dina), na kuma san abin da nake so in yi kuma na bi shi. Ban yi watsi da waɗannan kwanakin dutsen a cikin mujallar Biz ba lokacin da, bayan yin aiki ta hanyar zuwa wani littafi a Boston, na bar aiki don neman aiki a New York - daidai lokacin da na tafi tare da kasuwar jari na 2008. Cue wani classic line daga Abokai : Barka da zuwa duniyar gaske. Yana tsotsa. Za ku so shi, kamar yadda Monica ta yi wa Rachel ta'aziyya a kakar wasa ta farko.
Duk da haka, watakila yanayin Monica wanda na fi danganta shi da (da kuma wanda yake da yanke shawara ba Rachel) ita ce ta'aziyyarta da gaskiya game da abubuwan da ke sa ta rashin sanyi. (Ina jin daɗi! Ta ce a cikin saƙon murya ga Richard a wani lokaci lokacin da ta ke yin wani abu sai dai.) Domin duk lahani da kuskurenta-da kuma abubuwan tsaftacewa na OCD-ta mallake su, ta yi dariya game da su, ta kasance abin ƙauna a gare su.
Kuma yayin da masu yin wasan kwaikwayon suka jagoranci mu mu kira Monica a matsayin neurotic daya da kuma Rahila a matsayin dukan-Ba-Amurke yarinya-gaba-kofa, na gane yanzu da na samu a cikin halaye na sama (sannu, Rahila ta gashi) kuma watakila a bit. mai buri (sake, gashi) tare da yin nazari mai zurfi a kan wane hali da gaske ya ji ni.
Amma wannan shine ɓangaren ban dariya: Bayan shekaru na tunanin Monica a matsayin takardar , Yanzu ina kallon wasan kwaikwayon kuma na san ita ce halin da nake so in kasance (kuma har zuwa babba, sun kasance koyaushe). Ita ce wacce ta fi dacewa da kanta idan an kammala shirin. (Akwai dalilin da ya sa Joey yake son bi ta - kuma, Ok, Chandler - zuwa 'burbs.)
Shin har yanzu ina tafiya ta Ray Ray? Zuwa abokina na kusa, tabbas. Amma, a cikin zuciyata, koyaushe zan kasance Monica-kuma ina alfahari da ita.
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