Hanyoyi 12 Don Yin Jima'i Na Kwanciyar Ku, A cewar—Wane kuma? —Mai ilimin jima'i

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Shin kayan ado na ɗakin kwana na iya inganta rayuwar jima'i? Ee, a gaskiya ma, yana iya. Mun sami deets daga Tammy Nelson, masanin jima'i da dangantaka wanda ya dauki nauyin podcast Matsalar Jima'i kuma shine marubucin littattafai guda biyar, ciki har da sababbi Lokacin Kai ne Mai yaudara . (Har ila yau, ta TedX magana a kan sabuwar auren mace daya zai girgiza duniyar ku.)

Nelson ya ce sanya ɗakin kwanan ku ya zama tsibirin soyayya yana farawa da ɗaukar kayan gaskiya na sararin samaniya. Shin wannan wurin fantasy ne inda zaku iya jan hankalin abokin tarayya don jin daɗi, lokacin fantasy na sexy? Ko kuwa dakin kwanan ku ya fi wurin ajiyar kayan wasan yara da tashar aikin ku ta gefen gado?' Nelson ya tambaya. Idan na karshen ne, to hmm...watakila ɗakin kwana zai iya amfani da ɗan ƙaramin aiki. Anan akwai sauƙaƙan girgizawa guda 12 Nelson ya ba da shawarar sake kunna soyayya a cikin ɗakin kwana.

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1. Boye TV

Idan ba ku cire TV gaba ɗaya daga ɗakin kwanan ku ba - an ba da shawarar sosai - Nelson ya ba da shawarar ɓoye shi. Bai kamata ya zama babban abin da ke cikin ɗakin kwanan ku ba. Saka shi a cikin kati ko a kan shiryayye mai ƙofofi ko masu rufewa don ɓoye shi daga gani. Ta wannan hanyar, labarai na dare ko sabbin abubuwan da suka faru na Matan Gidan Gaskiya ba zai sanya damuwa a rayuwar jima'i ba.

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2. Tsara igiyoyi

Duk wayoyi da akwatunan lantarki yakamata su kasance daga hanya. Ya kamata ƴan igiyoyin wutar lantarki su fita a kowane lokaci, musamman idan suna kusa da gefen gadon ku, in ji Nelson. Roger cewa-saboda wa ke son yin tafiya a kan cajar kwamfuta a tsakiyar wasan foreplay? Igiyoyin da aka bari suna ɗimbin yawa kuma suna ɗaukewa daga madaidaicin kuzarin ɗakin, in ji Nelson. Har ila yau, tangle na igiyoyi na iya tara ƙura da gashin dabbobi, wanda shine hanya mafi yawa ewww babban fiye ahhh sexy . Mai tsara igiya irin wannan da aka ƙera na Jafananci, akwatin filastik mai ƙarfi yana ɓoye igiyoyin wuta da tsayin igiyoyi don haka za ku iya samun wurin gadon sumul.

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3. Rike Aiki dabam

Babu wani abu da ke damun ku a cikin toho fiye da yin wasa tare da abokin tarayya, kawai don ganin idanunku akan tarin kudaden da ba a biya ba. Yi ƙoƙarin kiyaye teburin ku daga ɗakin kwanan ku, idan sarari ya ba da izini, Nelson ya nuna. Ya kamata a ware aikin daga ɗakin kwana inda kuke yin soyayya. Cire duk wani dambarwar takarda kamar mujallu da takarda a cikin ɗakin kwana ko kusa da gadon ku. Idan kuna aiki akan kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka, gwada kuma kiyaye kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka daga sauran kayan aikin ɗakin kwana. Har yanzu kuna buƙatar wurin da za ku sami kuɗi a zahiri? Gwada ƙaramin tebur a kusurwar falo maimakon.

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4. Kashe Waɗancan Fitilolin

Kun san yadda gidajen cin abinci na soyayya koyaushe suna da ƙarancin haske? Domin muna hutawa a ƙananan haske-kuma kowa yana da kyau, kuma. Nemo haske mai laushi don ɗakin kwanan ku, tare da matakan haske da yawa idan zai yiwu,' in ji Nelson. Idan za ku iya kashe fitilun tare da na'urar dimmer ko ragewa, yi amfani da wannan lokacin da kuke son ƙarin yanayi na soyayya. Kuma idan ba za ku iya sake kunna hasken wuta ba, ƙananan kwan fitila a cikin fitila mai kyau ya kamata ya saita yanayi.

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5. Haskaka Candles

Kyandirori ne classic romantic go-to, kuma a yau akwai ƙarin zabi fiye da kowane lokaci. Kyandir ɗin harshen wuta na halitta suna ba da haske mai laushi, yayin da masu ƙarfin baturi suka fi haske kuma suna haifar da ƙarin kuzari, in ji Nelson. Anan, kamar a yawancin jima'i, taken shine aminci na farko-don haka tabbatar da busa kowane kyandir kafin kuyi barci (ko kuma idan kun damu zaku manta da su duka, zaɓi maimakon amfani da wutar lantarki ko kyandir batir).

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6. Zana bangon lafazi

Nemo launi wanda ke aiki don ɗakin kwanan ku kuma fenti aƙalla bango ɗaya tare da sabon fenti a cikin launi mai dumi, na sha'awa. Zaɓi launi da ke wakiltar sabon kewayen ku na sexy. Sabunta ɗakin yana iya jin kamar sabon farawa. Anan, sautin baƙar fata mai laushi mai laushi yana yin bango mai ban mamaki ga gadon, wanda shine, bayan haka, ƙaramin matakin da aka saita don kowane yanayin soyayya.

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7. Zuba jari a cikin Kyawawan Sheets

Sanya zanen gado mai laushi akan gado da mai ta'aziyya mai laushi. Kewaye kanku da abubuwan da ke jin daɗin fata da jikin ku. Ka ɗauki kanka kamar kana cikin wurin shakatawa ko otal mai tauraro biyar, in ji Nelson. Kuma ya zama cewa inna ta yi gaskiya (ba game da ɗakin kwana na sexy ba, wannan zai zama abin ban mamaki) game da inganci fiye da yawa: Nelson ya yanke shawarar cewa yana da kyau a kashe kan zanen gado ɗaya ko biyu masu kyau kuma a juya su akai-akai, tun da yana da mahimmanci. don samun saiti ɗaya na kyawawan zanen gado fiye da saiti shida na marasa kyau.

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8. Haɓaka Matashin ku

Yi matashin kai masu kyau akan gado, kuma da yawa daga cikinsu, in ji Nelson. Ga abin da muke ƙarawa: Gwada madadin matashin kai, tunda suna da hypoallergenic kuma suna wankewa da kyau. Domin, idan komai ya tafi kamar yadda aka tsara, matashin matashin na iya buƙatar ɗanɗano mai mahimmanci bayan ƙaunar daji. Ko gilashin shayi mai ƙanƙara ya zube, ko wanne ya fi.

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9. Sannu, Matashin Jifa na Canji

Matashin kayan ado na kayan ado ya kamata su kasance kamar rayuwar jima'i: bambance-bambancen da launuka, amma ba tare da kamewa ba. Jifa matashin kai hanya ce mai sauri kuma mara tsada don sake ƙirƙirar ɗakin kwanan ku baki ɗaya, in ji Nelson. Ba dole ba ne ku biya mai yawa kuma za su iya canza tsarin launi na ku duka. Bugu da ƙari, suna ƙara girma, jin daɗi da laushi ga kowane salon ɗakin kwana.

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10. Ƙara Abun Tausasawa

Kai, kasancewar damuwa yana sanya ni cikin yanayi don yin soyayya, ba wanda ya ce. Don haka sanya yanayin ku ya zama wani ɓangare na aikin shakatawa. Kula da abin da ke sa ɗakin kwanan ku ya sami nutsuwa, in ji Nelson. Sabbin inuwa ne ko fararen labule? Shin ƙaramin maɓuɓɓugar ruwa ne a kusurwa ko sautin daji daga na'urar sauti? Ƙirƙiri wani abu don sigina ga jikin ku cewa ɗakin kwana = lokacin ni.

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11. Haɗa ɗan Halitta

Yi hulɗa tare da dabbar ku ta ciki - don haka dangantakar ku ta ruhaniya da dukan abubuwa masu rai - ta hanyar ƙara crystal ko biyu. (Ko ma idan duk wannan yana kama da mumbo-jumbo, aƙalla yana da kyau.) Nelson ya ba da shawarar ku tattara ƙwanƙolin teku a kan tsayawar dare ko ƙona turare. Smudge tare da sandunan sage don share makamashi. Kafa bagadi a kusurwa. Menene zai sa ku ji a tsakiya a cikin sararin ku? (Sai dai, ƙila ku riƙe rera waƙar hypnotic idan ba ku san abokin tarayya sosai ba.)

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12. Rike Kayan Wasan Wasan Wasa

Abin mamaki - da alama haka kawai sani your woo-woo gizmos (e, wannan shine kalmar kimiyya) suna nan kusa na iya zama kunnawa. Samun wani abu mai ban sha'awa a kusa zai iya taimaka muku jin daɗin soyayya, in ji Nelson. Yi wasan kwaikwayo na jima'i, mai tausa da kayan karatu masu ban sha'awa da sauran abubuwan da za ku gani waɗanda ke kunna ku a cikin aljihun tebur kusa da gado ko kuma a kulle (idan kuna da yara). Don haka, koda kun fita daga waɗancan batura masu sau uku-A, kayan wasan ku har yanzu suna taimakawa mafi girma.

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